“I didn’t really get much attention and when I did, I’d get so nervous.” - Lucy
#findinglove #shame
Girls would make comments, constant comments about how ugly I was. At the back of my mind I still think people must think I’m ugly. I’m over 60 now but, you know, these things stick with you. - Cornelius
#ageing #shame #naughty
I once climaxed without touching myself at a party, because a song with the right beat came on. - Lola
#exploration #sound
The Islamic way of having sex is lights off. - Adi
#islam #culture #secrets
The subject of rape keeps popping up in my life - Ben
“I would never say no to sex.” - Nadeem
#marriage #lovestory #sex #lover #pakistan
I was looking for an escape from my family and my only option was to get married. - Esmeralda
#marriage #stalking #freedom #spanish #mexico
“Every sexual encounter was so stressful. All about being the best. If you put pressure on performance, you’re gonna have performance anxiety.” - Lev
#anxiety #performance
I can feel sensations now. I’ve started to feel my emotions too. Before that it was just a robot phase. - Roddie
#openingup #boundaries #sensations #emotions #subtlety #owningpleasure
We thought we were just experimenting before we became 'real men'. We had sex but we didn’t kiss. I was telling him to save his first kiss for his first girlfriend. - Aslan
#bisexual #shame #sensual
God won’t love you any less if you’ve had sex but he’ll appreciate you waiting. - Patience
#virgin #abstinence #rwanda
I liked the way she looked and wanted to take care of her. I thought that’s what being in love was. - Clive
#aging #abstinence #feminine
We have been together for 9 years. We never had sex. It was one of the first things we talked about. - Gag
#hermaphrodite #genderfluid #abstinence
“I have an ongoing fantasy about paying for sex." - Jerome
#exploration #shame #polycurious
I answered an ad to become a prostitute and it changed my life. I was 54 at the time. - Cyndy
#sexwork #senstivity #femininity
The moment I feel they don’t care, that I’m just a cock, I shut down. - Jack
#sensuality #masculinity
I was attached to polyamory out of fear. I wanted it to calm my fear. I never saw monogamy work out before. - Tamara
#poly #maneater #orgasm #fear
If a Rwandan man is dating a woman, sometimes they will ask you, “wara kunye?” which translates to “did you stretch?”. - Gabrielle
#labiastretching #rwanda
I never make demands, I don’t want to be seen as a dirty old man. There are no people in my own age range but it doesn’t mean I’ve lost interest. - Bill
#history #aging #hero
I can’t enjoy sex but I act like I’m enjoying it. - Darius
#circumcision #introvert #asexual
"I was close to asking if he wouldn’t mind if I got a toy for myself but I didn’t want him to feel uncomfortable." - Dolores
#latin #wantmore #raisingteens
The shibari work is paid work, mostly. I like working with women this way, to remind them that trust is possible. - Nimrod
#sexwork #shibari #bdsm
I didn’t really fancy the guys who were nice to me. Not sexually. I’d just ignore the nice guys. You could call it the bad boy syndrome. - Danielle
#black #choosingbadboys
I still cannot have an orgasm with most people. It’s difficult to let go 100%. - Jolanda
#orgasm
I was really angry that my dad would do something like that to my mother. And then I realised you can love two people at the same time. - Naomi
#cheating #confusion #morethantwo #marriage
"He held me back in a lot of ways and I let myself be held back." - Anne
#selfworth #kink
My mum was the one who showed me porn for the first time. I was 8. - Talia
#underage #abuse #mother
Society says you have to have sex all the time. If you don’t you’re either sick or depressed. - Veronica
#asexual #married
"I know how to please men because I’ve been abused. Whether it’s food on the table or sex on tap or being exciting, abused women want to please men constantly." - Isabelle
#mentalhealth #abuse
I self-soothed as a child a lot by rubbing myself down there. 70% of my childhood pictures I have my hand down there. - Kirsty
#obsessive #orgasm #healing
"With all the porn out there I kinda felt like I had a benchmark to meet. I tried to be a superwoman in bed but then I realised it was just fake." - Kemi
#porn #performance #black
I always make excuses to not have sex with people. I haven’t shaved. I’m tired. It’s late. Sometimes I go out with people I’m not so attracted to because it feels safer. - Asli
#resistance #turkish
"I always thought menopause would be great - no more thinking about pregnancy. But it didn’t work that way." - Ceri
#menopause #questioning
"I'm still rolling around on my own. Not that I don't like my own company, but I’m 45 soon." - Joy
#single #lookingforlove
"There’s still a belief in me that there is something wrong about sex." - Maria
#guilt #curious #notsostraight
"I could not touch myself till I had a midlife crisis. It took that for me to learn that giving to myself was not a selfish thing." - Jessica
#gender #wantedtobeaboy #married #aging #pleasure
"I used to fall in love with men. It was what I was meant to do, to fall in love with men. But it wasn’t falling in love, it was falling in love with the idea that I could be a part of normality." - Cristina
#lesbian #greek #normality #comingout #bodyimage
"Not feeling any pleasure is a way of me punishing myself." - Olivia
#shame #vaginismus #italian